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 Hey guys!  The article you are reading now is to bring a lamp so that you see the reality clearly! #maybe you are the next prey and you don't even know! Have you read the book-Influence:The Psychology Of Persuasion? Sounds too scholarly maybe......hena? This book is the best recommendation marketers have ever had! Let me help you with the hack of convincing someone,but yeah for good! The book basically talks about 7 principles that you should use in the pursuit of  convincing someone. I am writing a first ever review because I am sure its not possible for all of you to read the fat version,and hence some of you depend on me(lol). Its just the shorter edition of what minimum you need to know from this book that is over pouring with knowledge . The  very first principle and the most indispensable  is "Door in the Face Technique". Have you ever noticed that whenever we go to a mall for shopping,the most expensive items are always kept in the entrance.Sam...

 Dearest Saviours;)  I know you have had a lot of work to do today. But I demand your eye-through these words I am yelling at.  We Speak .  We Speak to others, but about ourselves, about our views, about our lives, about our thoughts.  Who cares for other's feelings ha? (Except the counselors... Haha)  We guys have decided to fully utilise the GOAT "Freedom to speech" And so we only Speeeeaaaakkkkkkk......  What's on the table then for others? When we talk what stays on our side, we disrespect or sometimes even forget about the views of other's.  Let me tell you about myself. It's been a long time I have been procrastinating my friend_Asmi on her choice of Utopian Fictional Movies. I had infact stolen her mood by criticizing those movies and stuff they say. I was good on my side being her'mommy', but regardless I disrespected her thoughts.  I know it was poor of me. Sorry for that bro. But you made me a nice lesson, '' Be a savior for others...

Dear Readers,I am writing this blog today on what my mother taught me,the most valuable lesson I would always carry exorbitantly. Many of you would be celebrating mothers day,gifting your mothers chi-chi gifts or by thanking and talking the soul with her!Yeah,that's the way to celebrate the day, but not this time. The word 'mother' has got its origin from almost all the languages, the sound " maa " being most prominent.It is seen to have no absolute meaning, but is just used as of course this sound is  most nimble of all for a child to utter. We all understand "mother" as the woman who birthed us by haggling with us for 9 months!, we understand her as the woman who fluxed our pain in hers, who slept after we snored, and lives nonetheless we do.That's a mother!! Its discernible that you need to make your mother the proudest  mommy, make her happy as if her sacrifices were worth, and respect her as if she is your life time creditor!  We can never recov...

 Hello Readers, and welcome back! Lets speak today about one of the most interesting human behaviors, i.e, inspiration and influence .We will first know what they exactly mean, how are they caused, how to distinguish, and finally which one is better. First--Inspiration: Inspiration is a  feeling of enthusiasm you get from someone or something , that gives you new and creative ideas.If something or someone is the inspiration for a particular book, work of art, or action, they are the source of the ideas in it or act as a model for it. Many a times we are asked about our role models, it is nothing but our inspiration, who create a sense of commitment towards our passion. Inspiration is a sudden intuition or idea, or something that arouses your desire to take action. In simple words its the force that pulls you, its the desire to achieve more, its an idea to tussle for, its all within you.  POINT TO REMEMBER IS THAT THE ORIGIN OF INSPIRATION IS WITHIN YOU, AND INPIRATION IS ...

HELLO FRIEND, AND WELCOME BACK!! WISH YOU  A VERY SHUBH GANESH CHATURTHI! Lord Ganesh [:GAN(PEOPLE)+ ISH(LEADER)], the Lord of beginnings as well as the Remover of Obstacles, brings life lessons for us.Though lessons Lord Ganesha teaches are enormous, lets at least apply these 6 lessons from his life: 1) DUTY IS ABOVE EVERYTHING: Goddess Parvati created Lord Ganesha using turmeric and infused life into it. We know what is the story behind Ganesha’s creation. Ganesha was upto his duty, eventhough he knew Lord Shiva would kill him.    2)PARENTS ARE THE WORLD TO US: The famous anecdote where Lord Ganesha revolves around Shiva-Parvati, when asked to take 3 rounds of the universe, rightly explains that Parents are the world to us. Both the points tell us that we must always respect our parents, and elders.  3)FORGIVENESS IS DIVINE: You may have heard of Lord Ganesha cursing the moon, for mocking him about his plump belly. Ganesha cursed him to disappear from the sk...

Hello guys and welcome back!✌✌ Well this time I request you, now that you have entered the blog, please read it till THE END. It is going to be for you today! In this world that we are born, as humans; we all want to leave a mark, be remembered and appreciated even after our death. We want to give back to this earth, bestow as much we can to the society. And that is when the term GREATNESS comes to our mind. We all want to be GREAT(all of us have thought of it, at least once). We want to be THE ABRAHAM LINCOLNs, THE NELSON MANDELAs, THE MICHELANGELOs, THE MOHHAMAD ALIs ,and a lot more people whom we know as GREAT, of our own field. What is then the difference between Greatness and Success? The answer is, Success is identified as the achievement of a quantifiable and measurable goal. Ex: Getting into a good college, then into a famous company, and then to earn a lucrative salary. Greatness, on the other hand falls in the domain of contribution, of making a difference.Ex:helping your...

 Don't you like Domino's! Don't you play video games! Don't you watch Hollywood! Don't you wake up late! Don't you this and Don't you that!!! So many Don't yous in our life..........is'int it? Hello all the LIVELY readers. The world we live in is a mocktail (which do you prefer Mojito or Shock wave??just jokinn) We have  combination of fat uncles and long aunties, smart children and naive adults, misanthrope kids and philosophical parents! and many more, all of them having a different understanding on LIFE and how to Live. In this fuss we are allowed to choose how we wish to live, create our own rules, unless it disturbs others. We are allowed to live freely, then why do people's thought define us?? Look at this dress, it was the one Deepika wore in her movie. I will go for it, let expensive it be. Look at the phone, its same I saw with Shreya, and indeed her choice can't be bad. I will go for it. What will she think of me when I buy an inf...

HERE IS A GENTLE REMINDER! THE REASON TO CLIMB THE EVEREST SHOULD BE GREATER THAN THE EVEREST! Really awakening. We must not forget that any work we do, until we do not have a definite purpose to accomplish it, we will not be charged with energy from the powerhouse_mind. The movie POORNA has jolted me out to this fact.Just get a purpose to climb your Everest and make sure the chilly winds CANNOT disrupt it away. CARRY ON!

     कहाँ  फिसल गए वह दिन?                                                    कैसे फिसल गए वह दिन जिनमे था असली जीवन                                                     बस याद करो कब था आपने खुलकर जीया?                                               कब था वह आखरी दिन जब न थी कोई थकान,                                                                    और न ही कोई शिकायत                ...

  Let me begin with an incidence. Imagine yourself riding a bicycle, in the bright morning sunshine, exercising as well as enjoying the verdure as you are riding. The climate is extremely appealing. Now you have had all the exercise and wish to get back home. Suddenly, another person, appears from a crossroad, in front of you. The person is very energetic and has a speed like the 'tauktae'(the storm that had very high winds). Looking at the guy, you want yourself to be faster and better and so you instantaneously try to overtake him/her, forgetting the scenery that made you happy. What's next? In this process you actually forget the lane that takes you to your home and miss it in the flow of competition . The ultimate result is :you have to travel a longer distance,  indeed wasting your time to reach home(destination). The point I want to bring home is, in this ''extra'' competitive world, we tend to forget our actual purpose and are prone to move in the pat...

Hello once again! 🙌 I hope you all are doing well. The covid is at its peak today. No, no! don't get scared, I am not going to bore you with the mundane news you are hearing whensoever. The fact is ,all of us have realized that our lives are temporary, and so we are worried- what will happen tomorrow? Some of us have a worry- which field to choose,will I be able to make it,what if i don't??? While some of us are in worry how they will be able to sustain their livelihood? SO MANY WORRIES AND AMONGST THEM ARE WE, SANDWICHED! We are not able to live our lives, the way we actually want to and so by the time death awaits us, we will be overcome with regret.  The reason behind this problem is that we are  not in the present moment. Well Friends, we all need a REMINDER!          The PAST is something that has already elapsed,in no terms can it be changed. The FUTURE is that facet of time which has not yet arrived, and so it is unc...

It was my exam time and I was studying in my room, but our neighbor where having a party and playing plangent music. It really irritated me and in fact I did not study that day. Have you experienced the same? All of us get irritated various times in a day. Someone fidgeting with a pen, while someone banging the bench you are sharing with, or sometimes shaking their leg and disturbing you or even a fly that is buzzing around. Smallest of the acts irritate and further lead to annoyance. This greatly affects your MOOD and shrunkens your efficiency at work. The experts say that the central cause for irritation is UNCONTROLLED MIND. If your mind is easily allured  to the situation and feels it disturbing then you are bound to get irritated. In simple words, explain your mind by saying mantras similar like:'' mann, why are you getting irritated so easily?, see that person will not change so can't I adjust with the situation ?'' This funda will simply work. The SHRIMADBHA...

 ....ahh!its she,after so long i see her...should i say her ''HI''?...no but she is nonchalant,will she reply????...... I often come to such circumstances frequently, thinking about something(often petty) and spend great deal of time ending up being wasted....DO YOU ALSO FACE THE SAME? OVERTHINKING IS ACTUALLY DEFEATING YOU....YES! We all have often come to this situation and know what overthinking actually is. From definition: “to think about something too much or for too long.” is overthinking. For psychiatrists it is the biggest cause for unhappiness. Guys let me tell you a secret which worked for me. let us break overthinking into 3 types.. 1} when you are unable to analyse a situation and make a decision. in this case take a paper and make 2 columns...one for IF and other for IF NOT...go for the idea with arguments that convince you. 2} when you are confused what to do next like the situation i mentioned above  just do not stop yourself, speak up, do what is right,...