Be A Savior!

 Dearest Saviours;) 

I know you have had a lot of work to do today. But I demand your eye-through these words I am yelling at. 

We Speak. 

We Speak to others, but about ourselves, about our views, about our lives, about our thoughts. 

Who cares for other's feelings ha? (Except the counselors... Haha) 

We guys have decided to fully utilise the GOAT "Freedom to speech" And so we only Speeeeaaaakkkkkkk...... 

What's on the table then for others?

When we talk what stays on our side, we disrespect or sometimes even forget about the views of other's. 

Let me tell you about myself. It's been a long time I have been procrastinating my friend_Asmi on her choice of Utopian Fictional Movies. I had infact stolen her mood by criticizing those movies and stuff they say. I was good on my side being her'mommy', but regardless I disrespected her thoughts. 

I know it was poor of me. Sorry for that bro. But you made me a nice lesson, ''Be a savior for others views''. On doing so you not only maintain peace in your relation but also let the speaker feel light and happy. After all, what all of us needs is someone to "hEAR".

Maybe you may not like them, but on your part, you may do good on simply not exaggerating #yourviews.

I may not stop you from scolding your friend when they are wrong,surely smash them, but like a human ahhh! 

All of us are not Same. And so, to respect other's choices and tastes is our obligation. Of course you would have heard quintillionth time people say:Words are like swords, they leave deep mental scars...., etc. So before speaking always remember:

Is it what you're speaking TRUE?

 Is it HELPFUL? 

Is it NECESSARY? 

And is it KIND?? 

REMEMBER, BEING MUTE when you don't necessarily have to speak doesn't make people consider you a DUMB. 

A question may then arise:Kinjal! How can I then be myself! Or how can I be transparent to others. 

It's true. We need not use sugar coated words and distastefully be on other's side. We need to be smart enough to patiently keep up our views on the table in such a way that both the parties are lit. 

That's what is the first step to convincing other's yar. (You can be a good business if you read me* haha) 

SO skipping to the good part;)

Speak less, be a savior!

(In the beginning itself I called you a saviour, because you are a one for me!) 

Do comment and let me know if I am doing it right.